happiness is not abt. what happens to u but how u choose to respond to what happens. that's y ts called HAPPINESS not HAPPENNES.
REALIZE-dat wtever is hapenin or not is a part of d grand plan d universe has divined for ur highest g00d.
DECIDE- dat u will go through d grief,anger,disbelief and sadness but ultimately u will recover havin grown to b wiser.
BELIEVE-dat der r no limits to love-- and in d future u will love anodr person and be loved mor dan u can possibly imagine.